My children have been fly fishing since they were 5 & 7. Now one is a teen-ager and the other is getting unbearably close to teen-hood. Teaching them to fish was, as it should be, a big priority in my life because fishing has meant so much to me. I know they will remember the great times they had with their pop on the waters of Colorado, Wyoming, Florida and many more. I also know they will pass this on to their children. I only hope that I taught them to teach their own children in a way that will allow them to love the sport and remember the great feelings of stalking fish with good company.
There are a few critical things I did that meant the difference between frustration and fun for everyone (pop and kid alike). It is tempting to put a child on a short fly rod because they are short themselves but that thinking doesn’t really work unless you can find a wispy zero or 1 weight fly rod and put a heavier fly line on it (a tactic called over-lining). I choose a 9′0″ slow action fly rod, which I found at a garage sale. I later learned from my buddy and business partner, Andy, that a 9 foot, slow rod or an over-lined, faster rod really helps people feel the loading of the fly-line. This is a great teaching aid for everyone.
With that rod, we practiced casting in the park on big, treeless, stretches of grass. One of the boy’s favorite fly-casting-practice games was “Fry the Fly” which is a game of H-O-R-S-E played just like the basketball game except with a fly rod. It got it’s name from aiming the little puff of egg yarn that was tied onto the end of a nasty old 1x leader at the BBQ grills in the park near our house – “Fry the Fly”.
Later, when I was teaching them on the water I resisted the urge to do any fishing for myself. Instead, I opted to simply observe and help them. I focused on the skill-sets that needed the most attention then carefully showed them how to develop that skill using my own rod, fly line and flies. I would demonstrate for them and talk them through the motions, but I tried very hard not to grab the rod from their hands and use it for the demonstration. Occasionally, though, it does became necessary to physically guide their bodies through the motions.
Working like this, they developed some fine casting skills including several techniques for presenting flies in a variety of conditions at some very precise targets.
Most importantly, they had a good time and have grown to love the sport.
Fish On!
–Shannon Long
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